How to Attract a Gemini Man
Why Set Your Heart on a Gemini Man?
There’s never a dull moment with the Gemini man. He has a real zest for life and a genuine sense of adventure. If you are an energetic and dynamic individual, are always on the go and enjoy your own space and company from time to time, the Gemini male is the man for you.
(Not sure if he is a Gemini man? Why not check out our Zodiac Male Spotter’s Guide?)
Winning a Gemini Man.
There are two major challenges when trying to win the affections of a Gemini man: getting him alone and keeping up with him. One of the most famous Gemini men is Bob Dylan and no other sign of the zodiac could be more accurately described as a ‘rolling stone’. The Gemini man hates to ‘gather moss’. Both the jazz musician Miles Davis and the Beat poet Allen Ginsberg were Gemini men, which might give you some idea of the irrepressible energy associated with this particular sign of the zodiac.
At work, the Gemini man may be a little hard to pin down as he tends to be a whirling dervish of activity. He finds administrative red tape to be enormously frustrating and, in his effort to free himself from its restrictions will almost certainly tangle himself up in knots. He will be very appreciative of anyone who can free him from these bureaucratic irritations and allow him to concentrate on what he is best at: generating and communicating new ideas that will improve productivity and effectiveness.
The most important thing to remember in relation to the Gemini man and the workplace is that he is unlikely to stick around for very long. He has a tendency to change his employer and even his entire career path as often as most people change their underwear! So if you’ve set your heart on a Gemini man, you can’t afford to equivocate or play it safe. Make your move!
The Gemini man also likes to learn new skills and increase his knowledge, so a night school course might be a great place to scout out one of these professional nomads.
The Gemini man loves to travel and will enjoy nothing more than exchanging stories of exciting holidays in exotic locations. If your passport is liberally stamped, you’ve got the perfect ‘in’ for a conversation with a Gemini man. Holiday snaps are great, too, but never more than ten: he just doesn’t have the attention span. Sneak in a sexy bikini shot ‘accidentally’ and you can press two buttons at once!
If you’re not well-travelled, don’t worry. The Gemini man is a chatterbox by nature; it doesn’t take a great deal to draw him into a conversation. In fact the more frivolous and frothy the subject matter, the better. However, if you’ve set your sites on a particular Gemini man and you share an interest with him, be it politics, music or a particular television show, it certainly won’t hurt to steer the conversation toward this common ground. Just remember, don’t stick to the same subject for too long, and once the Gemini man has moved on to another topic, don’t be tempted to take the conversation back again.
Don’t be too put off if the Gemini man doesn’t respond enthusiastically to you in the early stages of your ‘campaign’: it is a frequently occurring character trait of the Gemini man to be distant and a little cool. Don’t take any displays of aloofness to heart. Keep at him! In general, you do have to be something of a mind reader when it comes to the Gemini man, as they rarely give anything away.
The most important thing to remember when making your move on (or making yourself available to) the Gemini man is to never give the impression that you’re looking for a long-term relationship with all that entails in terms of commitment. The Gemini man is happy to just see how things go and take it one day at a time. However, if you handle him just right, one day at a time can add up to as many years as you like!
The Ideal Date for the Gemini Man
Single location dates are a big no-no for the Gemini man. So, forget about a three course meal or an opera. The perfect date should consist of a series of vignettes: a quick bite to eat in one location, a couple of drinks somewhere else… make it up as you go along.
The Gemini man will be turned off by a date that feels like it’s running to an itinerary or strict schedule. As far as dates are concerned, the Gemini man’s favorite words are “Let’s just see what happens.”
What to Wear for the Gemini Man
The Gemini man always responds well to the color orange, as it suggests energy and sensuality simultaneously. Try to avoid anything remotely conservative. In fact, it’s best to plump for something a little flirty, something to keep his eyes very much focused on you, because if there is one major Gemini man failing, it is the tendency to be a slave to his wandering eye!
Gifts for the Gemini Man
Anything that carries a whiff of novelty will be appreciated by the Gemini man, particularly the latest gadgets. Anything that elicits the response, “What is this?” is a sure-fire winner.
The Gemini man’s love of learning also offers a plethora of opportunities for gifts. A book of facts, particularly wow-I-really-didn’t-know-that kind of facts are a source of endless fascination to the Gemini man.
Sex and the Gemini Man
For the Gemini man sex, as with practically everything else in his life, is about excitement and change. For that reason, sex with the Gemini man can be an incredible experience… but isn’t for the prudish and conservative.
If you’re unwilling to experiment and inject a little fun and naughtiness into your sex life, the Gemini man is likely to become bored, and a bored Gemini man won’t stick around for very long.
However, this doesn’t mean you have to constantly reinvent yourself for his purposes. Small, subtle changes are sufficient: a different location, a rearranging of the ‘order of things’, or even a new perfume are all enough to keep the Gemini man on his toes.
For the Gemini man, sex isn’t purely a physical activity, it’s a mental and creative endeavour. For that reason, he’s as likely to be excited by what you say as by what you wear (or don’t wear). Of all he signs of the zodiacs, none enjoy sexual role play and fantasies as much as the Gemini man.
Keeping Your Gemini Man
In principle, it couldn’t be more simple. Don’t let the Gemini man get bored. Ever. This is where you have to ask yourself if you have the energy, inventiveness and spirit to keep up with the Gemini man. It certainly isn’t a relationship for the faint hearted. However, if you thrive on change and have mortal fear of boredom, you and the Gemini man can have an extraordinary life together.
What are You Letting Yourself in For?
The negatives of the Gemini man are, in a sense, the same as the positives. He craves novelty and change; he is bored easily; he needs to feel as if everything could change tomorrow and you’re okay with that. This uncertainty and lack of security are the price to be paid for the excitement and thrill of a relationship with a Gemini man.
With many Gemini men, the pursuit of ‘newness’ represents the desire to find perfection, to complete themselves. Consequently, they aren’t just looking for a girlfriend, wife, partner or lover, they’re looking for their soul mate. Obviously, this can create very unrealistic expectations.
You may find the Gemini Man more difficult if you’re a…
…Virgo, Sagittarius or Pisces, and particularly challenging, if you’re a Scorpio or Capricorn. But don’t worry: true love conquers all!
The Big Do:
The Big Don’t:
Never allow him to get bored.