How to Attract a Scorpio Man
Why Set Your Heart on a Scorpio Man?
Dynamic, energized and extremely sensual. If you’re looking for ‘that kind’ of relationship, you can do no better.
(Not sure if he is a Scorpio man? Why not check out our Zodiac Male Spotter’s Guide?)
Winning a Scorpio Man.
When it comes to securing the affections of the Scorpio man, the main obstacle is going to be other people. And by ‘other people’, I mean rivals. The Scorpio man attracts potential lovers like a magnet. The chances of you being the only person with an interest in this particular individual are vanishingly remote. In fact, there’s every likelihood there will be an entire harem of potential suitors! So, be prepared for the very real possibility of having to fight for the Scorpio man’s attentions. Of course, unlike your rivals, you know he’s a Scorpio man, so you’ll have a very distinct advantage before battle commences!
At work, the Scorpio man is the epitome of career-mindedness. He’ll be so utterly focused on the job in hand (and achieving his career ambitions in general) that he’s highly unlikely to indulge in idle chit-chat. So, you’ll need to catch him on his official break – that’s if he can tear himself away from his work long enough to take one. If you’re of senior rank or in a position to further his career, however, he’ll always have time for you.
If you don’t have anything to offer him in terms of professional advantage, make sure he sees you single-mindedly pursuing your career goals. He’ll admire you and view you as a kindred spirit. Just make sure you’re not both vying for the same prize! Once the Scorpio man views you as a rival, or a potential obstacle to his career ambitions, he’ll find it quite difficult to see you as anything else.
If you manage to get the Scorpio man alone long enough to actually initiate and sustain a conversation, make sure you don’t ask any personal questions. The Scorpio man likes his private life to stay that way and responds badly to prying of any sort. Even when he’s in a long term relationship he’ll like to keep a few secrets.
The Scorpio man doesn’t like to feel like he’s being analyzed or, even worse, psychoanalyzed. Any attempt to ‘get inside his head’ will be greeted with hostility.
When complimenting the Scorpio man, don’t lay it on too thick. Too many compliments make the Scorpio man uncomfortable and suspicious.
The Scorpio man is a great lover of secrets and mysteries. If you let it be known that you know something he doesn’t know, particularly in relation to the movers and shakers in the workplace, don’t be too surprised to find him turning up at your desk on a regular basis trying to convince you to let him in on the big secret. This can be quite an effective tactic for getting the Scorpio man to leave that irritating throng of admirers and seek you out.
The Scorpio man is refreshingly honest. If he isn’t interested in going out with you, he’ll let you know quickly and bluntly. His intention is not to hurt your feelings but simply to be open and truthful. If this happens, look on the bright side, at least he hasn’t drawn things out and wasted your time! If, however, he doesn’t inform you in short order of his lack of interest, you could take this as a reasonably good indication that he is interested. Or, at the very least, he isn’t disinterested. People who aren’t aware of the typical Scorpio man’s personality can pursue him for years, convinced that his rebuttals are all part of the game and it’s only a matter of time before he gives in to the inevitable. More fool them! You, of course, know better.
The Ideal Date for the Scorpio Man
As an aficionado of mysteries and secrets, the Scorpio man will enjoy a date at the movies, particularly if the feature in question is an intricately-plotted whodunit with plenty of twists.
The Scorpio man also likes to win, especially at games or sports that require the application of intellect and strategic planning. Although a game of chess might not seem like the most romantic of date activities to you, the Scorpio man will appreciate it.
The Scorpio man’s love of mysteries means he also loves to find things out. So, a trip to a museum might make an ideal first date if you’re looking for something a bit more ‘neutral’ than the candle-lit dinner.
What to Wear for the Scorpio Man
The Scorpio man loves sex, so wearing something sexy is always a great idea. However, keep in mind the fact that he also likes secrets and mysteries. In other words, make sure you leave something to the imagination!
In terms of colors: purples, blues and whites are of particular appeal to the Scorpio man.
Gifts for the Scorpio Man
Mystery novels, science books that reveal the inner workings of something or anything that delves into the mysteries of the past will be appreciated by the Scorpio man.
Once a relationship has reached ‘that point’, sexy lingerie for yourself is always considered a gift for the Scorpio man.
Sex and the Scorpio Man
Of all the signs of the Zodiac, none is more closely associated with sex than that of Scorpio. Sex is an integral part of everyday life for the Scorpio man, as essential as food and water. For the Scorpio man, sex is not a separate pursuit, rather it is the point at which all things meet: love, passion, leisure, exploration, fun…
Keeping Your Scorpio Man
The Scorpio man is intense in all things, and as such is also intensely loyal. His great love of sex has earned him an unfair reputation as something of a ‘dog’, but the Scorpio man is more than happy within a monogamous relationship… so long as there’s an ample supply of ‘physical love’.
Support him in his career, pursue your own career with determination, let him have his harmless secrets, and there should be no problems.
Oh, and don’t forget about the sex.
What are You Letting Yourself in For?
Because the Scorpio man likes his secrets, he can be a little difficult to trust. However, this is largely a misinterpretation of his secretive nature. As a rule, he is honest, frank and open.
Negative Scorpio traits are, as with all negative zodiac traits, a manifestation of his more positive attributes. For example, his singular pursuit of his professional ambition can lead to ruthlessness and even cruelty. He may be neglectful of his partner’s needs as he throws himself into his work.
His love of secrets can lead him to assume everybody has secrets. This can make him suspicious, paranoid and accusative.
His wholehearted and passionate pursuit of his goals can manifest as an ‘everything to excess’ mentality, resulting in self-destructive tendencies. Both Dylan Thomas and Pablo Picasso are example of intense Scorpio men.
You may find the Scorpio Man more difficult if you’re a…
…Aquarius, Taurus or Leo, and particularly challenging, if you’re a Aries or Gemini. But don’t worry: true love conquers all!
The Big Do:
Did I mention sex?
The Big Don’t:
Don’t pry. Let him have his secrets.